Transgender: Transition Success Series

Question: I'm a 14 year old lesbian (transgender)?

(Posted by: Craigyas on 2010-02-02 16:12:39)

I'm a girl born in a boys body. I am going to start dressing like the girl I am. I am also a lesbian. I need tips on how to dress ( I took some of moms stuff today) please give me advice

Posted by: Wendy O on 2010-02-02, 16:31:41

People need to quit being so harsh about this situation, it's a horrible and rough problem. Do what you feel is right.

Posted by: Lupus Coma on 2010-02-02, 16:15:24

Hope you get reincarnated as one

Posted by: Hybrid Moments on 2010-02-02, 16:15:49

Your not a lesbian your a straight guy that needs to work out his issues.

Posted by: I am no1 on 2010-02-02, 16:15:52

If you're born with a dick, no matter what you think you are, and you don't have boobs, then you are a guy. A guy cannot be lesbian.

Posted by: jazzo. on 2010-02-02, 16:15:53

Let your hair grow.and if its short use clips and stuff. hmm you can were tight pants oh bracelets and ear rings too. pretty girly ones not the manly guy ones.

Posted by: Terry on 2010-02-02, 16:16:00

Get off the internetz before the trolls get to u thats my advice.

Posted by: Brak! on 2010-02-02, 16:16:06

You're joking right lol Maybe you should go and get a sex change.

Posted by: Ev-DAWG on 2010-02-02, 16:16:13

Wear what fits u. and what ur comfortable in. doesnt matter what you look like

Posted by: ¸§ À on 2010-02-02, 16:16:15

Your fucked up, do makeup, become thin, stuff your bra, wear girl clothes grow your hear out.

Posted by: Mr. Shpongadongle on 2010-02-02, 16:16:23

Why don't you wait about 10 years before doing anything extreme.

Posted by: Anna on 2010-02-02, 16:16:34

Dress how you feel like dressing, just try things on that you like and see if it looks good on you...thats pretty much what girls do. = ]

Posted by: theend on 2010-02-02, 16:16:37

Sigh...is this really what you want. I hope you know kids can be cruel!

Posted by: Matthew on 2010-02-02, 16:16:46

This isn't a question. unless you want to know if you are a lesbian then definitely.

Posted by: Batastic <3 on 2010-02-02, 16:17:04

How are you a lesbian if you are a guy? doesn't that just make you a straight guy who enjoys dressing like a girl?

Posted by: Raven on 2010-02-02, 16:17:08

O.O I don't know what to say about you being born in a boy's body but, here is what you should wear I guess... Skirts Make Up High Pony Tails You could probably wear any shirt... That's pretty much all I can think of

Posted by: Someone on 2010-02-02, 16:23:19

Being lesbian is hard, because many people can't accept the fact that some people don't think the same way as them, so I suggest keeping it simple. Solid color baby dolls, t shirts, polo's are perfect. hollisterco.com/ webapp/ wcs/ stores/ servlet/ ProductDisplay?storeId= 10251 &catalogId= 10201 &productId= 409927 &langId= -1 &categoryId= 12622 &parentCategoryId= 12552 &colorSequence= 04 hollisterco.com/ webapp/ wcs/ stores/ servlet/ product_10251_10201_600827_-1_12594_12552 Hope I helped!

Posted by: Julie on 2010-02-02, 16:24:39

You are a girl, being a lesbian is not right its wrong, like guys because God wants you to because he knows what best

Posted by: sashtou on 2010-02-02, 16:25:51

I'll leave aside the many questions that naturally arise from your statement re: being a transgender lesbian ~ as in 'How do you know this'? The uncle of a friend of min underwent a dransgender procedure in Nevada, and so became a woman. Fine, but he then went off and found himself 'a girlfriend'! And now he lives in a lesbian relationship. On the one hand, it begs the question of 'Why go through all of the pain and the procedures if you want to be a woman ~ and want to bed a woman? On the other hand, it suggests that there is far more to gender identification than whom we bed and how we bed them and make love to and with them. Sorry, I can't give you tips on 'how to dress' ~ mainly because I have no idea how transgender lesbians are 'supposed' to dress! Are there supposed to be Rules for this now? And does someone begin to punish you if your break them? Sash

Posted by: Fishie<3 on 2010-02-02, 16:28:15

Well girls clothes would be the obvious answer. Your mom's stuff might not be that great (unless your mom is young and dresses really hip) So I would advise trying to find another way to get clothes. Will your parents freak if they find out? If not then maybe just try talking to them about it. Give them some resources like books, websites, doctors' phone #s, etc. If you think they will freak then the best bet would probably dress in boys clothes, but add more feminine accents to it. Dress however you're comfortable. I'm lesbian but I dress in all guys clothes. Clothing shouldn't have to be so gender orientated. Maybe buy girl's tees and wear them under a guys jacket, so when you get to school or whatever you can take it off. really just do whatever feels best for you. there's no rule saying that a transgender lesbian has to dress "this " way

Posted by: Dough Boi of Pilsbury on 2010-02-02, 16:39:55

Wear whatever you want, but I would suggest coming out first. After coming out, I would start with some gender neutral clothing and work your way up to wearing all womens clothes. Some people just get freaked out because they don't understand why you "changed ", they also often don't realize that previously you had been being someone else you felt pressured to be and are just finally expressing who you really are. Don't listen to any of the stupid trolls or ignorant people. They don't understand and they don't want to. You should also probably talk to your teachers about it when your ready, just so they can work out changing the pronouns and such. Good luck, girl. ;)